Let’s try a couple things here...

1. Listen and discuss instead of argue and insult
2. Assume others are basically decent, relatively intelligent and compassionate
3. Remember that everyone has a family that matters to them
4. Accept that others can have a different view of things than you
5. Respect that people have reasons for their opinions that are valid and important to them
6. Understand that faith and moral beliefs are deeply personal choices
7. Appreciate that courage does not mean you are not afraid
8. Know that everyone has felt pain sometime in their life
9. Believe that an open hand is more powerful than a closed fist
10. Realize that Everyone has value

...and see what happens